Why do people comment about bodies and food around the dinner table? You may be surprised to hear that people bring up body and food talk for reasons that usually have nothing to do with you and everything to do with culture, habits, and their own insecurities. 🍽️ Many people grew up in a family where talking about weight, diet, or appearance was considered normal conversation. 🍽️ Diet culture is deeply ingrained. Society has treated body size as a moral issue and food as “good” or “bad.” 🍽️ Holidays heighten food anxiety. When someone feels guilty or worried about eating, they often comment on what someone else is eating to cope or deflect. 🍽️ Unsolicited comments about health or weight are often framed as “concern.” 🍽️ For some, commenting on others’ plates or bodies is a way to feel superior or justify their own choices. ➡️ Negative comments about bodies or food are usually a reflection of the person saying them—not the person hearing them. Understanding that can ma...
Don’t miss out on this one-time opportunity to purchase this limited edition "Cape Epic" Trimarni kit. The stores closes on November 25th. ORDER HERE. Thank you for your support! Why did we design these limited edition kits? For 8 days, from March 15-22nd 2026, Karel and I will ride over 430 miles and climb over 52,000 feet on our mountain bikes in South Africa at the 2026 Absa Cape Epic . And for the first time ever, we will race together as a team. Through rugged terrain, up rocky climbs and down thrilling technical descents, we must stay within two minutes of one another at all times during each stage, or face penalties. And as a team, we must wear matching kits for all 8-stages. This world-renowned race is often described as the “Tour de France of mountain biking” — a truly epic test of endurance, focus, and teamwork. Karel will be turning 50 next year and I will be embarking on my 20th consecutive year of long distance triathlon. We've conquered a lot over the yea...